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Minn. Guard veterans get help in return to family life

by Jessica Mador, Minnesota Public Radio

May 14, 2012 MAHTOMEDI, Minn — In 2009 when Kevin Ross left for Iraq with the Minnesota National Guard, he and his wife, Emily, had two children

When he returned they had three The children had grown so much Ross hardly recognized one of his daughters

"The night I got home I remember we are standing in that final formation in the armory," he says, "and I looked out and I saw a little girl sitting on the floor crying As I got closer I hugged my wife and realized that that was my child"

Kevin, 31, a member of the Willmar-based 682nd Engineer Battalion, was away from home for about 18 months

For Emily, 32, holding down the homefront alone and single parenting their two daughters and son (Elena, 9, Lucy, 6, and Isaac, two-and-a-half) was difficult

It was an even bigger adjustment when he got back

"And his responsibilities were all centered around him," she says, "and then coming back to a household of five people and a wife who's been dealing with it alone all this time and is ready for a break, I think it took some time for him to readjust to even what his responsibilities in the family were"

Kevin says it took months before things felt normal "With a deployment it kind of seems to reset the clock, so you go back and you have to relearn how to communicate with each other," he says

The Rosses are one of more than 120 recently deployed military families participating in a groundbreaking University of Minnesota study that aims to make this transition easier

It's called ADAPT (After Deployment, Adaptive Parenting Tools)

ADAPT researchers observe parents and their children to try and understand deployment stress At the same time, researchers are testing parenting techniques on the families

Lead investigator Abi Gewirtz says the goal is to create special parenting tools for military families

"What we know about families under stress, whether it's stress due to deployment or stress due to any other family transition, is that when families are stressed it's parenting that is hit," Gewirtz says

And that affects children

To find out how, Gewirtz and a team from the U and the Minneapolis VA developed a special program for military families with children age 5 to 12 They assign each family to one of two groups: In one they receive written parenting resources In the other they participate in 14-week parenting workshops

Gewirtz says the program teaches parents to communicate effectively with their children and reduce conflict

"Instead of doing what we what we call a drive-by direction -- you know, when you walk past the child and say, 'OK, time to pick up your stuff now,' and go to the other room and then the child is like, 'Huh?' Or a long-distance direction, 'Honey, can you come down now, please!' -- you know, these are more convenient for us but they don't serve us well"

ADAPT recommends that parents give short, simple, face-to-face directions and that they use praise and incentives to encourage good behavior While all families could use the techniques ADAPT teaches, there is new and growing recognition among military leaders that supporting military families makes stronger soldiers

"You know they train the soldiers; you might as well train the families along with them"

- Emily Ross, on a parenting program for military families

At home in Mahtomedi, Kevin Ross stands next to his son and asks him to help set the table as his wife, Emily, makes dinner

While Isaac is too young for the program, the Rosses say the ADAPT techniques have made a big difference with all their children

Before the study, Ross says he would have handled things differently

"I probably would have asked him once or twice and gotten frustrated and done it myself" Ross says learning to speak to his children on their level is very different from what he learned in the military There, soldiers are expected to follow orders without discussion or complaint

The Rosses agree ADAPT isn't a magic bullet The children do not follow directions every time But they have responded positively to the new techniques

Emily Ross says she would like to see ADAPT expanded and shared with military families across the United States

"And it's been wonderful for our family, and we know it would be wonderful for other families as well," she says "It should almost be a requirement for families going through this that they go through training like this You know they train the soldiers; you might as well train the families along with them"

Over the next five years ADAPT researchers will recruit 400 Minnesota military families and follow them

The program is also expanding outside of the metro area, St Cloud and Mankato to serve more recently returned soldiers outstate
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